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Using Questions As Tools In Dating

I agree with this article on using questions to land dates.

But questions can also be used to avoid heartache, scams, and deception in dating. Don’t be afraid to ask upfront for:

  • Their full name (including their middle name). Many times we think to get their first and last name. But when googling their name or even searching county databases we may end up with too much information and information that has nothing to do with the person in question. So the more you can filter your search results, the more time you have to get to know this new person.

    If they ask why you want to know, you can let them know you were just curious. Or you can tell them you wanted to know if the name they gave you was their true first name or do people refer to them by their middle name. After all, it’s not uncommon for people to go by their middle name instead of their first. It also helps when you do the smart thing and at least google them.

  • Don’t be afraid to ask for their email address either. Many times when you date online, people are quick to ask you to email them. This is a tactic many scammers use. But if they don’t offer their email, you can tell them you want to send them a funny video, an inspirational message, or an article you think they’d find interesting.

    Then once you have their email, be sure to plug it into all of the major search engines to see if anything negative turns up. You can also use it to search many social media sites.

  • Also don’t be afraid to ask them if their pictures are recent. If they say “Yes”, then follow up by asking “How recent are they?”. If they say “No”, then ask them to post more recent pictures.
    Once they have shared pictures on their profile, you can then do a google image search using their pictures. You’d be surprised by the results. This is also a technique to use to catch scammers.


The point is, by asking the right questions, you can better determine if you are truly interested in getting to know this person, and it can help you detect scammers earlier in the process.

Your time is short and so is life. Don’t waste it on losers.

Sincerely,

Tayarisha Joyce

Reverse IP Address Lookups Are Not The Way To Detect Romance Scammers

I have heard people suggest looking up the IP Addresses in an email to detect a romance scammer.
This is not the best way because there are ways to disguise the origins of an email. Without getting too technical, a proxy server can be used to make an email appear to originate from the location a scammer claims to be when in actuality they are at a completely different location.


Instead, use the tips in the Scope Your Date ebook
that you’ll be able to read on any internet accessible device. I cover when to use different techniques to catch a romance scammer. Each dating scenario is different.

My techniques are not easily disguised by scammers.



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Tayarisha Joyce

Beware Of The Sextortion Scam – Online Dating Tips

The IC3 (Internet Crime Complaint Center) has received several reports of people on social media and dating sites being scammed into exposing themselves via online video chats where they are conducting sexually explicit activity. They may be asked to show their nude body via video, not knowing they are being secretly recorded.


Then the scammer threatens to show their sexually explicit videos/pictures to their friends and online contacts if the victim doesn’t send them money.

The IC3 says the scammers ask for money in the range of $50 -$500 to be wired to them (often overseas).

So be careful what you do and say with technology. It can be used against you.


If you want to learn how to turn technology into your favor and beat/catch these scammers at their own game, join Scope Your Date and get tips and tools that make a difference in your dating life.

Learn how to pick better dates and avoid wasting time on these scammers. Learn how to Scope Your Date before it’s too late!

Walking in love,

Tayarisha Joyce

Romance Scammer Of The Week 3-27-13- Is This Guy 39,47, or 52?

3/27/13: Yet another scammer claims to fear God. Yeah right. He fears God so much that he lies about his age and location. He is on at least 3 different sites claiming to be 39, 47, and 52 years old. He also claims to be in Los Angeles, California and Houston, Texas.

Make sure you don’t talk to anyone online with these words in their profiles

I am a loving , caring, romantic , easy going ,honest and hardworking kind of a guy who has the fear of God at heart .

Learn a quick way to detect romance scammers. Read a free chapter from the Scope Your Date ebook . Then grab your copy of the ebook “Scope Your Date – Know The Potential Of A Mate By The 1st Or 2nd Date”
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Tayarisha Joyce

Romance Scammer Of The Week 3-13-13 – Is He 43 or 55 Years Old? My Guess Is He/She Is Neither

3/13/13: On one site, this scammer claims to be 43 years old, 6’3″ tall, and living in Houston, Texas. On another site, this same scammer lists themselves as 55 years of age, 6’2″ in height, and living in New York. On both sites, he claims to be a widower.

But ladies, DO NOT FALL FOR THE HYPE or these words of this romance scammer:

Friends who know me best would describe me as a confident man who Lives by Integrity with strong character traits; honest, caring, sensitive, soft heart, a good communicator, very passionate for what he believes in.

Always Scope Your Date!

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Tayarisha Joyce

Romance Scammer Of The Week 3-6-13

3/6/13: Here are more words of a romance scammer. Be sure to always Scope Your Date!


I’m not a serial dater, and never have been. I’m very aware of my likes and dislikes

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Tayarisha Joyce

Common Words Of A Romance Scammer

i'm basically a laid-back sort of a guy. i'm not shy, but i am not the most outgoing guy either. once i get to know more about the other person, i am very open

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Romance Scammer Of The Week 2-27-13

2/27/13: This scammer actually sounds corny. But still always Scope Your Date!


It’s a big world out there and might as well enjoy the ride while life is still a mystery …Maybe we can enjoy the ride together…Generous, caring, outgoing

See I told you “he” sounded corny.

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Romance Scammer Of The Week 2-20-13

2/20/13: This scammer says he’s willing to try anything once. I guess that includes scamming people out of money too. Always Scope Your Date!


I am a humorous, sensitive and loving man. I am adventurous, spontaneous and willing to try anything once.

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Tayarisha Joyce

Romance Scammer Of The Week 2-13-13

2/13/13: How ironic! Here’s a scammer looking for an honest woman. Always Scope Your Date!


Seeking for a very nice beautiful woman like you and honest,distance is not the problem for me i just need the real woman that will show me love i can move to anywhere to find my real lover

For more tips on dating safety, romance scams, proof of a divorce, and more get the book “Scope Your Date – Know The Potential Of A Mate By The 1st Or 2nd Date”
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Walking in love!
Tayarisha Joyce